Moment of Self-Reflection:
What might be the one tweak that I can make in the re-occurring and uncomfortable moments in our marriage?
1. Might it have to do with my attitude? What is the attitude I need to embrace?
2. Might it be that I need to work on my choice of words? Are there words I need to stop using or start using? Be specific.
3. Might it be that I need to act differently? What is it that I do that fuels the fire of our arguments?
Moment of Goal Setting:
Write out how you want to change your approach to your spouse in the uncomfortable moments in your relationship. Be specific. Be positive. Make a copy of this and put it where you will naturally come across it every day.
Moment of Connection:
Share your goal with your mate. Listen while they share theirs with you. Pray for each other.
Be encouragers of each other’s growth!