paying attention to your spouse

Attentiveness Inventory

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paying attention to your spouse

Marriage Moments will include questions and/or exercises to start conversations. They will provide an an opportunity to know yourself and your partner better. Check in with your LifeMate to see if this is a good time for them to answer these questions. If it is not a convenient time schedule a later time that would work for both of you. When you are the listener, show up with an interested and curious attitude. Be careful not to interrupt. After one of you has answered the questions, turn the tables and give the other partner their chance.

Have fun getting to know each other better!

Score yourself on how well you do with being attentive to your spouse.

_____ I sacrifice and personally exert effort in our relationship.

_____ I have a tender name for my spouse.

_____ I bring humor and laughter to our marriage.

_____ I express love verbally and in actions.

_____ I look out for the best interest of my spouse.

_____ I have a special song that has significant meaning to us.

_____ I maintain eye contact and stay focused when we talk.

_____ I affirm my mate directly and in front of others.

_____ I let my spouse know I am receiving their love.

_____ I tenderly touch my spouse.

Pick one of these areas that you will intentionally focus on

when you are with your mate.

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