don't blame your spouse

Blame= Be Lame!

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don't blame your spouse

Wisdom From the World

“All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you. The only thing blame does is keep the focus off you when you are looking for external reasons to explain your unhappiness or frustration. You may succeed in making another feel guilty about something by blaming him, but you won’t succeed in changing whatever it is about you that is making you unhappy.” – Wayne Dyer

Wisdom From the Word

”It’s easy to see a smudge on your neighbor’s (LifeMate’s) face and be oblivious to the ugly sneer on your own. Do not have the nerve to say, “Let me wash your face for you, when your own face is distorted by contempt.” It’s this I-know-better-than-you mentality again, playing a holier-than-thou part instead of just living your own part. Wipe that ugly sneer off your face and you might be fit to offer a washcloth to your neighbor (LifeMate)” – Luke 6:41,42 (The Message)

Keep Me Real, Lord!

“Lord, Keep me real! It’s so much easier for me to read an article or hear a talk on relationships and think about how this would benefit my LifeMate. Help me to live in personal truth, awareness and growth rather than focusing on where my mate needs to grow.”

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