Marriage Moments will include questions and/or exercises to start conversations. They will provide an an opportunity to know yourself and your partner better. Check in with your LifeMate to see if this is a good time for them to answer these questions. If it is not a convenient time schedule a later time that would work for both of you. When you are the listener, show up with an interested and curious attitude. Be careful not to interrupt. After one of you has answered the questions, turn the tables and give the other partner their chance.
Have fun getting to know each other better!
- What is your reaction to the idea of scheduling a date night and a time for sex on a weekly basis?
- Look at your calendar for this coming week and schedule these two dates.
- What are some activities that you would each enjoy sharing for a date night. You might pretend that you are on vacation in your own town or city. Make a list of spots that you have previously ignored or haven’t visited in a long time. Are there bookstores, art galleries, museums, beaches, trails, restaurants, or other points of interest that you might like to visit.
- Share what would you like to include in your intimate time together.