Marriage Moments will include questions and/or exercises to start conversations. They will provide an an opportunity to know yourself and your partner better. Check in with your LifeMate to see if this is a good time for them to answer these questions. If it is not a convenient time schedule a later time that would work for both of you. When you are the listener, show up with an interested and curious attitude. Be careful not to interrupt. After one of you has answered the questions, turn the tables and give the other partner their chance.
- How did we handle each other’s perspective when we were first married? Give examples.
- Has there been a shift in how we handle differences now? Be specific.
- Would you say that our marriage limits you in any way?
- Are we creating an “US” that brings us both pleasure? Is there anything you would like to change?