Marriage Moments will include questions and/or exercises to start conversations. They will provide an an opportunity to know yourself and your partner better. Check in with your LifeMate to see if this is a good time for them to answer these questions. If it is not a convenient time schedule a later time that would work for both of you. When you are the listener, show up with an interested and curious attitude. Be careful not to interrupt. After one of you has answered the questions, turn the tables and give the other partner their chance.
- How has adjusting to my family changed you and your perspective? Be specific.
- What would you say is the greatest benefit to you personally of loving me for a lifetime?
- How have you had to adjust your expectations and learn to live in reality as a result of being married? Be specific.
- How has our relationship changed you over time?