Marriage Moments will include questions and/or exercises to start conversations. They will provide an an opportunity to know yourself and your partner better. Check in with your LifeMate to see if this is a good time for them to answer these questions. If it is not a convenient time schedule a later time that would work for both of you. When you are the listener, show up with an interested and curious attitude. Be careful not to interrupt. After one of you has answered the questions, turn the tables and give the other partner their chance.
1. Have you ever had the experience of choosing God’s way when you wanted to do the exact opposite? What was the result in your relationship?
2. At this time, how are you asking God to help you grow into a more effective lover?
3. How can I pray for you?
4. Is there any issue that we need to bring to a third party… a therapist, a pastor, a mentor? What is your perspective about pursuing wisdom outside of ourselves?