Marriage Moments will include questions and/or exercises to start conversations. They will provide an an opportunity to know yourself and your partner better. Check in with your LifeMate to see if this is a good time for them to answer these questions. If it is not a convenient time schedule a later time that would work for both of you. When you are the listener, show up with an interested and curious attitude. Be careful not to interrupt. After one of you has answered the questions, turn the tables and give the other partner their chance.
1. What is the most significant Valentine card or gift that you have ever received? Tell me about it.
2.Since we are talking about love, do you ever dream about making a difference? If so, what sparked that dream? Tell me about your dream. Has anything ever gotten in the way of that dream? Is there any way our marriage could support your dream?
3. If you have never been a dreamer, who and what influenced you in that direction?
4. If you never had to worry about finances again, are there existing organizations, profit and nonprofit, that you would like to help thrive?Tell me why you chose those particular causes.
5. This Valentine’s what is it that you most want me to know?